often, for a male the state of the kitchen is the state of the mind.
but not for a woman – unfortunately the state of her kitchen is (exceptions be granted) in direct ratio to how much she cares for you.some woman have theories on how to save the world but cant wash out a coffee cup. if you mention this to them they will they will tell you: “washing out coffee cups isn’t important.” unfortunately, it is. especially to a man who’s worked 8 hours straight plus over time. you begin saving the world one man at a time; all else is grandiose romanticism or politics.